Walking Between Worlds: Why I Choose the Long Way

People often ask what I really do.

I help people write books.

I write books of all sorts. I try new genres.
I run writing retreats. In real places. with real humans.
I work with AI tools.
I’ve spent years inside startups, technology, and publishing.
I’ve walked ancient pilgrim roads and sat in modern pitch rooms.
I’ve run events and learnt, first-hand, how investors think. And how much work goes into a real life event. And how much value you get from one.

Where on earth are you, Susan? I hear that all the time. Why does it matter?

In reality, it’s one path.

You Can’t Outsource the Walking

Pilgrimages teach you something quickly:
there is no shortcut that doesn’t cost you something. That something may have unexpected unpleasant consequences.

On the Camino, your body keeps the score. Sometimes you just have to stop earlier than planned. Sometimes, it just gives up in the middle of the night and you have to rush to the loo and throw up – food, expectations, and vanity.
At the Kumbh Mela, faith manifests as heaving crowds and flowing water.
On long roads, ego falls away—not because you planned it, but because it’s too heavy to carry.

That lesson never left me.

Writing a book is the same kind of journey.
So is building a business.
So is thinking deeply enough to be worth listening to.

You can’t outsource the walking.
And you can’t fake having done it.

Books Are Not Products. They’re Proof.

Somewhere along the way, books became “content.”
Fast. Strategic. Optimised.

I don’t see them that way.

A book is proof that someone stayed with an idea long enough to finish their thinking.

That’s why most books fail—not because the writing is bad, but because the thinking isn’t complete.

A strong book:

• clarifies who you are

• signals how you think

• and quietly changes how others perceive you

That’s authority.
Not volume. Not hype. Not visibility for its own sake.

AI Is a Tool, Not a Substitute

I work with AI. I teach it. I use it daily. It fills in the blanks in my talents – like, I can’t draw!

But I’m very clear about one thing:

AI does not create authority.
It reveals whether you have any.

Used well, AI is like a walking stick—it supports clarity, execution, and craft.
Used badly, it becomes a crutch for people who haven’t done the work.

If you use AI to write your book for you, you outsource the very thinking that gives the book its power.

If you use AI to execute clear thinking—to design, structure, visualise, refine—then it becomes an amplifier, not a replacement.

The difference matters.

What Startups and Investing Taught Me

Working with startups—and running an event with Let’s Venture—sharpened this perspective.

Founders don’t fail because they lack ideas.
They fail because they haven’t finished their thinking.

Investors aren’t listening for excitement.
They’re listening for clarity, coherence, and conviction.

A good pitch and a good book have more in common than people realise:

• a defined problem

• a clear audience

• a believable path forward

• and a human being who understands their own “why”

Execution wins.
Finishers win.

I Build for the Long Term

I don’t build fast for the sake of fast.
I don’t post daily to stay visible.
I don’t chase trends I won’t recognise in five years.

I work with people who want to:

• leave a legacy

• change how they are seen

• finish something that matters

• and do it with integrity

Books last.
Thinking lasts.
Quiet authority lasts.

Why I Walk Between Worlds

Pilgrimage keeps me honest.
Technology keeps me relevant.
Startups keep me sharp.
Books keep me human.

I walk between worlds because each one tests a different part of me—and strips away what doesn’t belong.

That’s the work I trust.
That’s the work I teach.

And I’m still walking. Still writing. Still helping others to write.

If you’re planning to walk the Camino de Invierno, you’ll want to look beyond the main markers to discover the unique experiences that make this route special. Scattered along the path are historic sites, artistic surprises, and spiritual corners that reveal the true heart of this lesser-traveled Camino.

Here are seven hidden gems you won’t want to miss.

Street Art of Quiroga

Quiroga’s colourful murals transform ordinary walls into vibrant stories. These artworks reflect the town’s identity, traditions, and river heritage — a creative contrast to the Camino’s ancient surroundings. Don’t rush through this town; take time to explore the alleys and discover its modern artistic soul.

New Albergue at the Church at Diomondi 

Next to the beautiful Romanesque Church of Diomondi stands a newly opened albergue — peaceful, quiet, and spiritually grounding. Staying here lets you sleep right beside a piece of history, surrounded by forests, stone walls, and centuries of pilgrim footsteps.

Five Ways at the Capilla dos Remedios

This tiny chapel marks the meeting point of five ancient paths. It’s a special place to pause, breathe, and reflect. Many pilgrims take a moment here to light a candle or simply appreciate the sense of crossroads — both literal and symbolic.

Castillo Cornatel near Villavieja

Perched dramatically on a ridge, Castillo Cornatel once belonged to the Knights Templar. Its soaring walls and panoramic views are worth the detour. You’ll feel the medieval spirit as you explore its battlements and look over the valleys the castle once protected.

The castle was used as a romantic setting for one of the  first Spanish historical novels, El Señor de Bembibre, 2 written by the writer Enrique Gil y Carrasco. 

Old-Fashioned Windmill near A Eirexe

A charming old windmill stands quietly near A Eirexe, surrounded by fields and sky. It’s a simple, serene stop — perfect for photos, a short break, or imagining the rural life that shaped these lands long before the Camino was walked by pilgrims.

Ancient Roman Bridge with Inscriptions

One of the most magical finds along this route is a Roman bridge carved with ancient inscriptions. Smooth stone, worn by time, connects you to travellers who crossed centuries before you — warriors, merchants, and pilgrims alike.

Church of Our Lady of Fatima at A Rua

A peaceful church devoted to Our Lady of Fatima greets pilgrims in A Rúa. Its quiet interior, soft candlelight, and gentle space make it a perfect spot for reflection before continuing into the vineyards of Valdeorras.

Conclusion

These hidden gems showcase the true beauty of the Camino de Invierno — a route rich with history, mystery, and unexpected treasures. Whether you’re a first-time pilgrim or a seasoned walker, these spots will deepen your connection to the journey and leave you with unforgettable memories.

A New Book is here

And you will find out more about these gems in that book, as well as more of our personal encounters.

In my journey as a pilgrim, I’ve walked the tranquil paths of the Camino de Santiago and, more recently, immersed myself in the vibrant energy of the Kumbh Mela. Both are pilgrimages in every sense of the word, yet their contrasts couldn’t be starker.

One whispers to the soul; the other roars with the collective voice of Bharat’s humanity.

What could this country become if we all worked and lived in peace in the same spirit of the Kumbh?

While many feel it reflects the punch of exclusive faith, to me it reflects the beating heart of Bharat that loves all its children unconditionally, just as the the Ganges pours its life-giving water to all, the spirituality and soul of India cannot be contained, labelled or constricted.

The Camino: A Quiet Conversation

Walking the Camino is like stepping into a long, slow conversation with yourself and the world around you. The rhythm of your feet on the gravel, the golden light of dawn, and the simplicity of carrying everything you need on your back strips life down to its essence.

Each day unfolds quietly, as the path takes you through sleepy villages, rolling vineyards, and ancient forests. There’s no rush, no urgency—just the road ahead and the inner journey it inspires. I remember lighting candles in tiny chapels, pausing to breathe in the stillness, and feeling a profound sense of peace. There were days when we saw no one on the road, and only a handful in the village.

On the Camino, the divine speaks softly. The journey is deeply personal, as if each step is a question and the Way offers a quiet answer in return.

The Kumbh Mela: A Roaring Symphony of Faith

In contrast, the Kumbh Mela is a portal and a pilgrimage of immersion—not just in sacred waters but in the overwhelming energy of humanity. During my two days there, on the most auspicious dates of the event, I stayed in the sprawling tent city, surrounded by millions of devotees. Yet, you ‘find yourself’ when you enter through the gate that is the Khumb.

Taking the boat to the Sangam, the confluence of the Ganges, Yamuna, and Saraswati, was unforgettable. The riverbanks were alive with rituals: priests performing aarti, pilgrims chanting prayers, and the air thick with the scent of sandalwood and marigold.

When I took the holy dip, I felt something ancient and eternal flowing through me. It was a moment of surrender—not to silence, but to the collective faith of millions. Unlike the introspection of the Camino, the Kumbh Mela demanded that I step out of myself and lose my individuality in the vast river of humanity. And when you do this, in a contradictory fashion, you feel centred in your heart and soul. As if for a moment you are the only person in the world.

The Rhythm of Solitude and Togetherness

The Camino is a pilgrimage of solitude. You spend long hours walking alone, your thoughts unfolding like the road ahead. Evenings bring camaraderie with fellow pilgrims, but the essence of the journey remains deeply personal. Step by step you walk until you reach your destination, to find that the Cathedral de Santiago wasn’t the end at all – but only the beginning of a new journey.

The Kumbh Mela, on the other hand, immerses you in togetherness. You’re never alone—not in the tent city, on the riverbanks, or even in the waters of the Sangam. Yet, in that crowd, there’s a profound sense of unity. You’re part of something much larger than yourself, connected by shared rituals and collective devotion.

Rituals: Whisper vs. Roar

On the Camino, rituals are subtle and personal—placing a stone at the Cruz de Ferro, lighting a candle in a chapel, or tying on the scallop shell that marks you as a pilgrim.

At the Kumbh Mela, rituals are vivid and sensory. The holy dip is central, but so are the chants, the aarti flames, and the sight of saffron-clad sadhus meditating by the river. While the Camino whispers its sacredness, the Kumbh Mela declares it boldly, unapologetically.

The Teachings of Two Pilgrimages

The Camino taught me patience and trust—each step a reminder that the journey matters as much as the destination. It showed me the beauty of simplicity and the quiet strength that comes from listening to your own heart.

The Kumbh Mela taught me surrender—not just to the chaos around me, but to the immense power of collective faith. It reminded me that the divine isn’t always found in silence; sometimes, it’s in the overwhelming roar of humanity moving as one.

Two Paths, One Soul

Walking the Camino felt like peeling back layers of myself, discovering who I am at my core. The Kumbh Mela, in contrast, reminded me that we’re all connected—that our individual journeys are threads in a much larger tapestry.

Both pilgrimages transformed me, but in different ways. One called me inward; the other drew me outward. One taught me to listen; the other to surrender.

Conclusion

If you ever have the chance to walk the Camino or stand on the banks of the Sangam, I urge you to do so. Because whether in solitude or in the embrace of millions, you’ll find that every pilgrimage leads to the same place: a deeper understanding of yourself and your place in the world. The Camino de Santiago and Kumbh Mela are sisters in spirit!

The Extreme Devotion of Shopping in Chickpet might sound vaguely sacrilegious, after all one cannot worship both God and Money. But God and Shopping? It’s almost like a camino – Chickpet feels like stepping into another world. Don’t think of it as a typical shopping trip—it’s a full-blown pilgrimage. With narrow alleys bursting with glowing fabrics, sparkling jewellery, and delicious street food, the devotion here is palpable. In Chickpet, shopping is a ritual, a test of endurance, a journey that rewards the brave and the dedicated with treasures at prices you won’t find anywhere else. Getting to Avenue Road from anywhere else in Bangalore can be a test of patience, and prayer – that no one knocks you down, that that autorickshaw hurtling directly at you will deflect at the very last minute, that you won’t trip over a broken flagstone on the carefully paved, and dug up footpath.

Just as quickly as the path is repaired, along comes another reason to dig it up – that’s almost a religious truth on Bangalore’s roads. but finally we arrive and step out into the mayhem – to find that it’s not so bad. The crowds are polite, there is little jostling, the footpath has vanished into the realms of fantasy, but everyone from cars, to rickshaws, to cattle is happy to share the road with you.

Your Fellow Pilgrims

Think of the masses as your fellow pilgrims not hyper-focussed shoppers! On Avenue road be prepared for anything: Devotees come in all shapes and sizes. There’s the traditional brigade of “aunties”, wrapped in rich Kanjeevaram sarees, haggling with a fervor that rivals any prayer chant, a ritual they’ve mastered over decades. I stop and watch amazed, and tuck the information away for when I return – that Rs 1000 saree just changed hands for Rs 450. Then there’s the younger crowd—girls in tight jeans and crop tops, drawn to Chickpet’s charm like moths to a flame, somehow managing to look cool and collected as they elbow their way through the throng.

A policeman in his signature cowboy hat ( yes the Bangalore police are deadly fashionistas in their John Wayne Hats) idly flicks through his phone, and stops to help us with directions – up the alley, and off to the righta.

But Chickpet isn’t just a market; it’s a lively intersection of the sacred and the secular. As you weave through stalls crammed with sarees and trinkets, you might find yourself suddenly standing in front of an ancient temple or shrine. Each is a place of calm amidst the commercial chaos, where garlands of marigolds hang like blessings, and the smell of incense mingles with the aroma of freshly fried samosas. Take a moment to notice the hidden people that make Chickpet come alive. Oh the stories they could tell!

There’s the older woman by a food stall, peeling onions by the hundred, her bangles clinking gently as her gnarled hands work as she watches the world rush by. On the temple tiny threshold, a young girl threads jasmine blossoms into garlands, her fingers moving deftly, her expression alert as she creates a fragrant magic in the midst of chaos. She watches the passing crowds keenly – is she waiting for her secret boyfriend to appear and say a casual hello as he saunters by?

Something about Rice

At one end of Chickpet, you’ll stumble upon Rice Memorial Chapel, an unassuming church behind a low wall with a red crucifix glowing on the wall, and an amazing history. And just a few steps further, you’ll find Jumma Masjid, its elegant minarets standing tall, calling the faithful amidst the din of bargaining voices and honking auto-rickshaws. It’s moments like these—finding places of worship amid worldly commerce—that remind you Chickpet is more than just a market. It’s a place where spirituality and commerce mingle, each weaving into the fabric of the other. Its a small reflection of the true India.

Rev. Benjamin Holt Rice (1814–1887) was a British missionary who made significant contributions to education in Bangalore, India. He is recognized for his efforts in translating the Bible into Kannada and for establishing the first Kannada-speaking church in Bangalore. That’s the one we stumbled upon in the heart of Chickpet. 

Rev. Rice was instrumental in translating the Bible into Kannada, making the scriptures accessible to the local population. He authored books in Kannada on subjects such as arithmetic, geography, and history, aiming to enhance the educational resources available to Kannada-speaking citizens.

There be Angels

Amid all this, hidden figures complete the picture of Chickpet’s devotion. The weary man with a basket sits patiently on a low wall, waiting for someone to hire him as a coolie. His face is lined with worry, his hands calloused from years of carrying others’ burdens. He watches the world with a resigned patience, waiting for that one person who will hire him at the end of the day.

The peanut seller shouts out her cry of ‘Kadlaikai‘ in a chant that draws me to her – I buy a measure of hot roasted peanuts. These are safer though less delicious than the cut raw mangos sprinkled with chilli powder. We’re lost in alley deep in the market, but a kind vendor directs his flunkey to guide us back – yes, there are angels unaware here too,

Autorickshaw Mayhem

Of course, no journey to Chickpet is complete without encountering the swarm of autorickshaws. This place must be their hatching grounds. It’s one of the few places in Bangalore where you’ll find an auto whether you want one or not. They jostle for position, their drivers watching hawk-like for the slightest signal from a would-be passenger. An auto in Chickpet isn’t just a mode of transport—it’s an escape route, a savior when you’ve finally had your fill of the crowds and your bags are too heavy to carry another step.

But for now, they pour into the road from a side street like a yellow tide of squawking ravens, calling out to you to either step out of the way, or hire them.

Pilgrimage

So if you ever find yourself gritting your teeth at the thought of the mandatory visit to Chickpet, relax and  commit to random wandering through Chickpet, let go of your shopping list anxiety and embrace the journey. Look beyond the crowds and the chaos to the people, the shrines, the devotion woven into every corner. You might come looking for bargains, but you’ll leave with a memory of something far richer. Here, in the heart of Bangalore, shopping isn’t just shopping—it’s a sacred experience.

So you ask, what did we buy? Yes, we did shop – its is extreme shopping after all. We ordered a houseful of curtains and drapes, all custom made. That was the purpose of the expedition – then we bought saree petticoats, material for blouses, salwar suits, and yes, hot fresh roasted to munch on the way home.

The Camino de Santiago is a profound experience with both physical and spiritual rewards and let’s be honest, challenges..

For seniors, preparing for this journey requires careful planning and consideration. Having walked multiple caminos after I crossed 60, here are some tips on physical training, packing essentials, and practical advice to ensure that older individuals are well-prepared, confident, and excited about their pilgrimage. Strangely, after every camino I feel I come back feeling younger and fitter than ever, but that doesn’t change my calendar years.

Physical Training Tips

The Camino de Santiago is a significant physical undertaking, especially for senior pilgrims. To ensure a safe and enjoyable journey, build your stamina and strength. Start by incorporating regular walks into your daily routine, gradually increasing the distance and intensity. Aim to walk at least three to four times a week, beginning with shorter distances and progressively working up to longer walks. This gradual increase will help your body adapt to the physical demands of the Camino, reducing the risk of injury.

Incorporating varied terrains in your training is essential. The Camino features a mix of flat plains, rolling hills, and uneven paths, so try to to simulate these conditions during your walks. Local National parks, trails, or even urban environments with stairs and inclines will prepare your legs for the different surfaces you’ll encounter. Walking on similar terrains will not only build your physical endurance but also boost your confidence, knowing you can handle the diverse landscapes of the pilgrimage.

Flexibility and balance exercises are also vital components of your training regimen. As we age, maintaining flexibility becomes increasingly important to prevent injuries and ensure ease of movement. Activities such as yoga, Pilates, and simple stretching routines can significantly enhance your flexibility and balance. These exercises help to keep your muscles supple and joints mobile, which is crucial when navigating the varied terrains of the Camino. Consider joining a local yoga or Pilates class, or follow online tutorials that focus on flexibility and balance for seniors.

Endurance training is another key aspect to consider. to be truthful, I only started on these recently, as a fellow pilgrim said it was necessary to interrupt the walking days with some different cross training. Engaging in activities that build cardiovascular fitness, such as swimming, cycling, or low-impact aerobic exercises, can greatly improve your overall stamina. These exercises support your cardiovascular health without putting undue stress on your joints, making them ideal for older individuals. By enhancing your endurance, you’ll be better equipped to handle the long days of walking on the Camino.

Listening to your body is perhaps the most critical tip of all. As you train, pay attention to how your body responds to increased activity. It’s essential to recognize the difference between normal muscle soreness and potential injuries. Ensure you get adequate rest and recovery between training sessions to allow your body to heal and strengthen. Overtraining can lead to burnout or injury, which could hinder your ability to complete the Camino. If you experience persistent pain or discomfort, consult with a healthcare professional to address any issues before they escalate.

Incorporating strength training into your routine can also be highly beneficial. Simple exercises such as squats, lunges, and resistance band workouts can help build muscle strength, particularly in your legs, core, and back. Strong muscles provide better support for your joints and can improve your walking posture, reducing fatigue and the risk of injury. Strength training can be easily done at home or at a local gym with minimal equipment.

Finally, consider the importance of mental preparation.

The Camino is not just a physical journey but a mental, emotional and spiritual one as well. Engage in activities that promote mental resilience, such as mindfulness meditation or relaxation techniques. Preparing your mind for the challenges ahead can make a significant difference in your overall experience. Visualizing yourself successfully completing the Camino, managing any obstacles with confidence, and maintaining a positive mindset can greatly enhance your journey.

By following these comprehensive physical training tips, you’ll be well-prepared for the Camino. Building your stamina and strength, incorporating flexibility and balance exercises, engaging in endurance training, listening to your body, and preparing mentally will all contribute to a successful and fulfilling pilgrimage.

The preparation process is the first step of your journey, and you’ll set yourself up for an unforgettable experience on the Camino.

Packing Essentials

When preparing for the Camino de Santiago, packing the right essentials is crucial for a comfortable and successful journey. The first step is selecting the right backpack. Opt for a lightweight, ergonomic backpack designed for long-distance hiking. Ensure it has padded shoulder straps and a waist belt to distribute the weight evenly across your body, reducing strain on your back and shoulders. Multiple compartments are great for organizing your gear, making it easy to access essential items without unpacking everything. Test your backpack on shorter hikes to adjust the fit and ensure it suits your needs.

Packing light is essential, but you must still include all necessary gear and clothing. Start with your footwear, arguably the most critical item. Invest in a pair of high-quality walking shoes or boots that offer excellent support and have been well broken-in before your trip. Blisters and sore feet can quickly ruin your Camino experience, so prioritize comfort and durability in your footwear choice. Consider bringing a second pair of lightweight shoes or sandals for evening wear to give your feet a break.

Clothing should be chosen with care, focusing on lightweight, moisture-wicking, and quick-drying materials. Layering is key to adapting to changing weather conditions. Pack a few base layers, such as moisture-wicking t-shirts and long-sleeved tops, to keep you dry and comfortable. Add mid-layers like fleece or lightweight sweaters for warmth, and a waterproof outer layer to protect against rain and wind. A wide-brimmed hat, sunglasses, and a scarf or buff can provide additional protection from the sun. Include a set of thermal layers if you expect colder weather, especially if you’re walking during the shoulder seasons.

Sleeping gear can vary depending on your accommodation preferences. If you plan to stay in albergues, which are basic pilgrim hostels, bring a sleeping bag or a sleeping bag liner. These provide a layer of comfort and hygiene, as bedding in albergues can sometimes be minimal. For those who prefer private accommodations, a sleeping bag liner might suffice. Regardless of your choice, opt for something compact and easy to pack.

Health and safety items are non-negotiable. Carry a well-stocked first-aid kit that includes bandages, antiseptic wipes, blister pads, pain relievers, and any prescription medications you require. Sunscreen is vital to protect your skin from the sun’s harsh rays, and insect repellent can keep bugs at bay, particularly in wooded or rural areas. A reusable water bottle is essential. Get a simple one, water along the Camino is generally safe to drink.

Travel documents and pilgrim credentials (credencial) should be kept safe in a waterproof pouch. Your passport, Camino guidebook, and credencial are crucial for accessing accommodations and collecting stamps along the way, which serve as a record of your pilgrimage. Keeping these documents dry and accessible will save you from unnecessary stress.

As you pack, think about the practicality and weight of each item. Everything you carry will add to your overall load, so prioritize multifunctional and lightweight items. For instance, a quick-dry towel can serve multiple purposes and take up minimal space. Similarly, a small utility knife or multi-tool is optional, but handy. Buy in Spain/Portugal as it is not allowed in cabin baggage.

Don’t forget about personal comfort and morale-boosting items. A journal or notebook can be invaluable for reflecting on your journey and recording your thoughts and experiences. A lightweight camera or smartphone with a good camera can capture the beautiful landscapes and moments you’ll want to remember. 

By carefully considering each item and prioritizing essentials, you can ensure that your pack is both manageable and equipped for the journey ahead. Packing smartly will contribute significantly to your overall experience, allowing you to focus on the adventure and the transformative nature of the Camino de Santiago.

Practical Advice for the Journey

Planning and executing a journey on the Camino de Santiago requires practical strategies. One of the first steps is choosing the right route that aligns with your fitness level, interests, and time availability. The Camino Francés and Camino Portugués are among the most popular routes, offering well-marked paths, frequent accommodations, and a vibrant community of pilgrims. Research these routes and consider factors such as distance, terrain, and the availability of amenities to make an informed decision. Creating a flexible itinerary that allows for rest days and spontaneous exploration is highly recommended.

Accommodation is a crucial element of the journey, and planning ahead can make a significant difference, especially during peak seasons. The Camino offers a range of lodging options, from albergues (pilgrim hostels) to private guesthouses and hotels. Albergues provide a communal and affordable option, fostering a sense of camaraderie among pilgrims. However, for those seeking more privacy and comfort, private accommodations might be preferable. Booking your stays in advance ensures you have a place to rest each night, allowing you to focus on the day’s walk without worrying about finding a bed. Additionally, enjoying the local cuisine is one of the delights of the Camino, but it’s wise to carry snacks like nuts, dried fruit, and energy bars to keep you fueled between meals. Always carry water – have a reusable water bottle you can refill as you go.

Managing your pace is essential to avoid burnout and injury. The Camino is not a race; it’s a personal pilgrimage where the journey itself is as important as the destination. Walk at a comfortable speed, taking regular breaks to rest, drink water, and appreciate your surroundings. Listening to your body is vital—adjust your pace according to how you feel each day. If you experience discomfort or fatigue, don’t hesitate to take an extra rest day or shorten your walking distance. This flexibility is key to enjoying the pilgrimage and reaching Santiago de Compostela in good health.

Staying connected is a question many pilgrims ask. Carry a mobile phone with an international plan or a local SIM card to keep in touch with family and friends. Sharing your itinerary with loved ones and checking in regularly provides peace of mind for both you and your supporters back home. Familiarize yourself with the local emergency numbers and the locations of nearby medical facilities along your route. It’s wise to have a list of emergency contacts and any relevant medical information easily accessible.

Walking the the Camino also involves non spiritual practicalities such as managing money and securing your belongings. Carry a mix of cash and cards, as some smaller villages and albergues may not accept credit cards. A money belt or hidden pouch can help keep your valuables safe. Be mindful of your belongings, especially in communal sleeping arrangements, and consider using a lightweight lock for your backpack.

In addition to the physical and logistical aspects, the Camino is a deeply personal and often spiritual journey. Embrace the opportunity for reflection and self-discovery. Many pilgrims find that the Camino offers time to disconnect from the daily grind and reconnect with themselves and nature. Journaling your thoughts, feelings, and experiences can be a therapeutic way to document your journey and process the emotions that arise. Engaging in mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing, can enhance your mental resilience and overall enjoyment of the pilgrimage.

Community and camaraderie are integral to the Camino experience. You’ll meet people from diverse backgrounds, each with their own stories and reasons for walking. Building connections with fellow pilgrims can be one of the most rewarding aspects of the journey. Join in communal meals, share your experiences, and support each other through the challenges and triumphs of the pilgrimage. 

By incorporating these practical strategies into your journey, you’ll be well-prepared to for the transformative nature of the Camino de Santiago. Each step, whether physically demanding or spiritually uplifting, contributes to the profound and memorable experience of this historic pilgrimage.

What to Expect During the Journey

The Camino de Santiago is an adventure filled with diverse experiences, from the physical demands to the emotional highs and lows. Understanding what to expect can help you better prepare and fully appreciate the journey. The path varies significantly, featuring flat plains, rolling hills, and occasionally steep or uneven terrains. You will encounter varying weather conditions, from intense sun to sudden rain showers. Preparing for these changes with appropriate gear and a flexible mindset will make the journey more manageable and enjoyable.

As you progress along the Camino, the physical challenge will become a significant part of your daily routine. Early in the journey, you may experience muscle soreness and fatigue as your body adjusts to the demands of walking several kilometers each day. It’s essential to listen to your body and allow time for rest and recovery. Over time, you will likely find your stamina improving, and the physical exertion may even become a meditative, rhythmical part of your day. Embrace the physicality of the Camino as an integral aspect of the pilgrimage, one that brings you closer to the environment and the historical path you are following.

Beyond the physical challenges, the Camino offers a rich tapestry of emotional and spiritual experiences. Many pilgrims find that the journey provides a unique opportunity for introspection and personal growth. Walking for hours each day, often in silence, creates space for reflection and mindfulness. You may find yourself contemplating your life, your goals, and your relationships. The Camino has a way of stripping away the distractions of daily life, allowing you to focus on what truly matters. Journaling your thoughts and experiences can be a valuable way to process these reflections and capture the transformative moments of your journey.

The emotional landscape of the Camino can be just as varied as the physical one. You may experience moments of elation when reaching a particularly beautiful viewpoint or overcoming a challenging section of the trail. Conversely, there may be times of frustration or doubt, particularly when faced with physical discomfort or logistical challenges. It’s important to remember that these emotional fluctuations are a natural part of the pilgrimage. Embrace the highs and lows, knowing that each experience contributes to the richness of your journey.

A significant aspect of the Camino experience is the sense of community and camaraderie among pilgrims. You will meet people from all over the world, each with their own stories and reasons for walking. The shared goal of reaching Santiago de Compostela creates a bond among pilgrims, fostering a supportive and inclusive atmosphere. Engage with your fellow travelers, share your experiences, and offer encouragement. These interactions often lead to deep, lasting friendships and a sense of belonging that can be profoundly rewarding.

As you approach Santiago de Compostela, the anticipation and excitement will build. The final stretch of the journey is often filled with a mix of emotions – pride in what you have accomplished, sadness that the journey is coming to an end, and joy at reaching your destination. The sight of the spires, the sense of history, and the culmination of your efforts can be incredibly moving. Take time to savor this moment, reflect on your journey, and celebrate your achievement.

Participating in the Pilgrim’s Mass at the cathedral is a meaningful way to conclude your pilgrimage. This traditional service honors the pilgrims who have completed the journey and offers a time for reflection and gratitude. Collecting your compostela, the official certificate of completion, is another significant milestone. It serves as a tangible reminder of your journey and the dedication required to reach Santiago.

Beyond the physical and emotional aspects, the Camino also offers practical lessons that you can carry forward into your daily life. The simplicity of living with only what you can carry on your back, the discipline of walking each day, and the resilience required to overcome challenges are all skills that can enrich your life long after you have returned home. Many pilgrims find that the Camino teaches them to appreciate the present moment, value human connections, and approach life with a renewed sense of purpose and gratitude.

Knowing what to expect and approaching the journey with an open heart and mind, you can fully embrace the transformative nature of this ancient pilgrimage.

Young parents on the Camino Portuguese

The Camino is a transformative journey, rich in history, culture, and personal reflection. But what if you could share this incredible experience with your children?  Walking the Camino with kids offers a unique opportunity to bond as a family, introduce young ones to the joys of pilgrimage, and create lasting memories together as you experience the Challenge and Joy of Walking the Camino with Young Kids as narrated to me by Louise, a young mother who I’d met briefly on the Portuguese Camino, and later we caught up over Zoom. Thanks Louise for taking the time to share your experiences, and hopefully guide more young families to walk the Camino with their young kids.

The Seed of this Camino

Six years ago, we walked the French Camino and loved it. After having kids, we wanted to continue our passion for walking, even though it’s common for new parents to opt for more convenient holidays. Instead of resort-style vacations, we decided to attempt the Camino with our children. We took advantage of Denmark’s generous parental leave, combining it with saved holidays to find a month for this adventure. We had previous hiking experience with our daughter and wanted to try a longer walk before waiting many years. We expected challenges, including tantrums and crying, and didn’t set a firm date to reach Santiago.

We booked a one-way ticket to Porto and an apartment there, leaving our daily plans open change based on how the walk was going. If it turned out to be a bad idea, we were ready to fly back home. We focused on making the trip enjoyable for our daughter, who was three and a half, as she needed more attention and breaks than our nine-month-old son. We allowed plenty of time for rest stops and play, unlike a previous pre-arranged hiking trip in Austria that proved too rigid and exhausting for my daughter.

We had numerous rest days during our month-long trip, walking only 16 days and spending the rest in Porto and Santiago. Looking back, we could have walked more, but our pace was slower, averaging 11 kilometers per day.

Accommodation Challenges on the Camino with Kids

The Portuguese Camino presented more accommodation challenges than the French Camino, which we walked six years ago. With our eight-month-old son waking up multiple times at night, we wanted private rooms to avoid disturbing others in albergues. Some albergues also did not allow children. We noticed a different demographic, with many pilgrims over 50. They tended to pre-book hotels or private rooms, making it harder to find accommodations. On the Portuguese you need to book in advance if you don’t want to stay in public albergues,  Because I think there’s just the demographic is different. It’s a different group that walks that one then at least walks the French Camino or other Caminos. So, if you want to stay in private rooms, I would say that you need to book it in advance.

It didn’t work out well at the start. We were exhausted in the evening after finding a place to stay that night and getting food for the kids and having to get the kids to sleep. And then after that, we had to spend hours researching for the next night accommodation.  Clearly this free walking wasn’t working well. So halfway, we did something else. We took some days off, and we just got to decide, how are we going to walk the rest of the way? Where can we sleep? And then we booked the whole thing. So, we did both.  Started out having to book nothing and ended up having to book the rest.

Booking just a day in advance was difficult due to limited availability of suitable places for shorter walking days.

It’s not so simple, because the other thing is that if I had booked everything in advance from home, I would not have booked a rest day after three days. And we had a rest day after three days of walking. And I would, in my mind at home, I thought we probably could walk more than that. But after having walked for days, we needed a day off. And that was the first from Porto to Villa de Condo. I think it was the first one we did. So, it’s 33 kilometers. That took us three days to cover that. I don’t think in my mind, I would have thought. That’s too long.

I don’t think I would have thought that we needed a rest day after three days, but we did need a rest day after three days. 

The camping seems a good option, but we also needed to be in the city to stock up on diapers for the baby. That’s also the thing that we wanted to be in the bigger cities because our daughter doesn’t use a diaper, but our son does use diapers.

Food on the Camino with Kids

Food was difficult, I would say, because restaurants opened too late. I think our daughter wasn’t that difficult because she at least likes cake and likes food. I think our son, who is a baby, he was more difficult because he doesn’t like those readymade meals that you can buy with lasagna or spaghetti bolognese.  I mean, if you have a baby that likes that, that’s great, but he doesn’t like that. So being that age where he has to get solid food, but can’t eat all the normal foods that we as adults eat. That was quite difficult for him. So, he got a lot more of those fruit smoothies. And then he also learned to eat more fruits than he would probably have eaten when he was at home.

So, it’s a win.

We managed. I think the food was not the best. When people ask us how it was, we would say the walking was amazing and the bonding was amazing, but all the practicalities around was difficult. So, the food and finding accommodation and packing, that was the goal. Luckily, there are lots of places that you can stop for food if you want to but when you bring a baby you have to consider what the baby can eat.

A Double Stroller on the Camino

Managing a double stroller on the Camino de Santiago presented unique challenges. We decided to bring a double stroller to accommodate both children, recognizing that our daughter would need a place to rest as the walk would have been too long for her otherwise. This decision proved beneficial, as her shorter legs meant she took many more steps than an adult, and she often ran back and forth, covering extra kilometers.

However, the double stroller was heavy, which made it difficult to carry at times. This led us to ship some of our belongings ahead to lighten the load. Despite the weight, the stroller’s ability to lie flat was particularly advantageous for our son, who napped frequently.

Navigating the terrain with the stroller was also a challenge. While most of the Camino was manageable, some parts, like the rocky spiritual path, were difficult. We took a full day to cover five kilometers on the Stone and Water Path, appreciating its beauty despite the tough conditions.

Overall, the double stroller was essential for the journey, providing necessary rest and mobility for both children. It was a practical choice despite the added weight and occasional terrain challenges.

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Balancing Coastal Charms with Practicality for Young Hikers

The decision between the coastal and central routes on the Camino de Santiago depended largely on weather conditions and the children’s preferences. We initially considered only the coastal route, attracted by its proximity to the ocean and picturesque port towns, which our daughter particularly enjoyed. However, the weather often dictated the route, as harsh winds or rain could make the coastal path less enjoyable or even uncomfortable for the children, despite their stroller providing protection. Ultimately, the flexibility to adapt their route based on weather conditions gave us a more enjoyable experience on the Camino.

Packing Lessons from the Camino with Kids

I think, even though we didn’t bring that much stuff for our children, we could have brought less, which is always fun to see that there were still things that they didn’t need, that they might need this thing, and then we’ll bring that. For instance, when you have babies, you always have this special baby cutlery, like a special spoon on your night, but technically, you don’t need it. This is capable of eating from a normal spoon. But all these shopping shops, they’re able to sell you all these items that you need. Which they say you need and you don’t need.

But on the other hand, we also brought things that we were really happy about. We brought small beds for them because we can buy these very collapsible beds that take up no space. We didn’t know where were going to stay. So, we thought, what if they don’t have beds and we don’t sleep that well in the same bed? So, we had the camp cots. We did actually have extra items and a collapsible chair for baby as well, like a fabric children’s chair.  But then he also had this chair or this piece of fabric that you could tie to a normal adult’s chair, and then he could sit in that.

So, we did bring items that you don’t bring when you’re an adult.

Tips for Managing Accommodations and Transportation

Direct Calls to Hotels. One of the most valuable lessons we learned was the effectiveness of calling hotels directly. Despite online platforms showing no availability, a simple phone call often secured us a place to stay. This tip came in handy multiple times, ensuring we had comfortable accommodations after a long day of walking.

Staying Multiple Nights. To streamline our journey and minimize daily packing, we adopted a strategy of staying in certain locations for more than one night. For instance, in Arman in Thia, a quaint village along our route, we enjoyed the hospitality of a lovely hotel for two nights. This allowed us to explore the area without the daily chore of repacking our bags.

Using Taxis for Convenience. Navigating long stretches without accommodations posed a challenge at times. To overcome this, we occasionally used taxis to bridge these gaps. After walking as far as we could in a day, we’d arrange for a taxi to take us back to our hotel. The next morning, another taxi would drop us off at the point where we left off. This not only saved us from walking excessive distances but also provided much-needed rest and flexibility.

Considerations with Taxis. One advantage we appreciated was the ease of finding taxis without needing car seats for our children. Unlike in our home countries, where it’s mandatory, here we could easily hail a taxi when necessary, making transportation logistics much simpler.

Lessons Learned: Reflections on Resilience and Family Dynamics from the Camino

Walking the Camino de Santiago provided valuable insights for us as a couple and parents. We discovered our resilience and determination, realizing we don’t easily give up—a quality we appreciated about ourselves. The experience also shed light on our organizational habits, noticing that despite having minimal belongings, we still faced clutter and mess, which we attributed more to personal habits than just having young children.

Overall, the journey taught us that embarking on such adventures helps one learn and grow, regardless of the challenges faced. We recognized that each person takes away different lessons from such experiences, and we valued the opportunity to understand ourselves better as individuals and as a family.

The most challenging aspect of the journey was the daily task of packing, added to by the need to organize and prepare for each day’s walk with limited belongings and the logistics of managing two young children. This routine often took us several hours, involving everything from feeding and dressing the kids to ensuring they were protected from the elements.

Conversely, the most rewarding part was the act of walking itself. It provided moments of profound beauty and strengthened our family bond, particularly seeing our daughter and son laugh and explore together along the trail.

The experience was not just a vacation but an adventure, from moments of doubt to triumphant joy upon reaching Santiago de Compostela as a family. The journey left us with lasting memories and a sense of accomplishment, knowing we had persevered through challenges as a family.

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